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May 13, 2018 ~ 51 weeks

This happy guy is so excited when you go into his room and greet him after his nap. And he is such a great sleeper, sometimes so much so that I think something is wrong because he sleeps SO much or at least seems as though he’s always ready to go back to bed! This week we were certainly thankful for the help of Jim and Pat on Monday and Friday and my parents on Thursday of this week to care for the boys. Since this post is after-the-fact, it turns out the Debbie has decided to quit and gave no notice. Rather, she told us she was “sick” for several days, texting at crazy hours of 12 and 1 am that she wouldn’t be coming. Friday of this week was her first “call off” but next week they continued until she quit via text on Wednesday afternoon. I had reached out to her mom as I was genuinely concerned about her and her behavior of calling off for nearly a week, at strange hours of the night, a couple times via a “friends” phone as she spilled water on hers. It just kept getting more and more strange. It turns out she didn’t appreciate the conversation that Kevin had with her on Wednesday of this week, and even though as a part of that conversation we setup a time to meet on Friday to discuss some things – that is when her call offs began and she never actually came back to work. It’s a shame and it’s upsetting that she chose to quit in such an immature and unprofessional way after 4 1/2 years of being with our family. I’m upset at the manner in which she departed and that she lied to us over several days saying she wasn’t “feeling well” even though she basically also removed all of her belongings from our house the last day she was here. It will be a big change for Griffin moving forward, not only for Debbie no longer caring for him each day, but also for him not having his best bud Sam around either. But we remain grateful for our parents who have really helped us out in a bind this week (and next!). Somehow I didn’t manage to get any pics of the Armstrongs :(.  This was the week before mother’s day, aka one of my most busiest weeks of the year, especially with the years odd April weather our May has been busier than “normal”. It was so great to arrive home to a tasty meal made by my parents, including dessert of angel food cake with a homemade blueberry reduction sauce.  Yummers! Dad and Finn have developed a hobby of running to the store together to get the days dinner stuffs. If you know my Dad, you know he doesn’t like to sit still (or when he does he’ll end up napping – now you know where I get it, lol!).   I so loved going to NPCA for the Moms and Muffins morning with Finn. We played connect four (he is really good!) and he showed me around his classroom. We played with some toys and then Mrs. Laura read the paper that each kid completed about their Mom. He’s pretty much got me down.  Well, he could have just stopped at my mom is really good at “working”….and left off the “out”. This boy has my heart!  Later during the school day the kids went to a nearby pond for a nature expedition where they looked for frogs and various insects. My friend Laura helped chaperoned and sent me these pics 🙂 Good old Brutes. He has ruined so many things from shoes to clothes to toys, lovies, and so much more. This puppy stage is always a long one with labs. But underneath it all he has the sweetest disposition. It’s not often the first thing you notice about him, as he can be overbearing, he has a deep and scary bark, and when he’s full of energy he can be a handful. And eventhough I’m sometimes cautious with him around strangers or people who are uneasy around him, I have no concerns at all about him with the boys. He let’s these kids do any and everything to him and he’s never once reacted poorly. They climb on him, wrestle him, pet him, push him, tackle him, and on and on. And when he’s tired he’ll just lay there and take it all in, like the picture below (which is terribly blurry but you get the point). He could care less that Reid is smothering him, crawling over him, and dumping all kinds of things off the shelf all over his face. He just lays there and lets it all happen!

Mr. Smiles is really getting good at moving around and making messes everywhere he goes! He’s practiced going up the stairs and sometimes waves, though not reliably so we’re working on that! After Griffin’s football game on Saturday we headed to Mansfield for Mother’s Day. Not wanting to always show the highlight reel, I included this one of Reid (and check out Greta’s expression) not really digging my photo request.  We explored Dad’s hostas and he showed Finn lots of his raised beds. And I love the photo of Reid up in the tree looking at Dad 🙂

Some sweet looking hostas of Dad’s with red petioles and red that has moved up into the leaves all the way to the tips!! And here are a few photos from Mother’s Day with my Mom! We are in front of the Coral Burst Crabapple tree that Amy and I gave them several years back. This might be the best year yet for flowering 🙂

And here is a clip from Finn’s football game where he was the ball carrier. He’s gotten much better throughout the season with his confidence and taking off when he’s handed the ball!

May 6, 2018 ~ 50 weeks

Our little guy is gaining new skills all the time! He’s getting pretty good at pulling himself up and standing! Debbie took this picture and I just love it! I was lucky enough to drop Finn off and pick him up at preschool a few times this week. It is something I wish that I could do a lot more than I actually did. I love seeing him at the end of his day and to hear his stories of what his day was like. Last year I wasn’t able to see the Art and Science Fair but this year I was! We found several of Griffins artwork projects in the hallway and he was so excited to tell me about them. This turtle, below, was super cool and when he brought him home he took him outside and hung him from a tree in our backyard.  It’s quicker for me to take Finn to school from Millcreek than to run home and pick him up, so he comes with me in the morning. He has such a great time. He colors pictures for several people and walks around and hands them out. He also walks around with a box of timbits to share so people love to see him coming ;).  We usually go out for a quick spin in the golf cart and this week he rode on my lap and steered for our drive.  It has been a really cold and weird weather spring this year, that is for sure. Our Rising Sun Redbud is just now flowering and beginning to leaf out. Our Crimson King Maple and Forest Pansy Redbud are just leafing out and blooming too.  These boys sure have my heart. I’ve still been going in to Reid’s room to say goodnight to him and nurse him most nights. My goal for nursing him was 10 months, the same as Finn, but I’ve made it 11.5 though it is nearing the end.
He just looks so big when I put him down on his changing table. Even when I feed him and change his diaper he’s the happiest guy. He smiles and me with a huge smile, or he sleeps, and goes right back to sleep when I put him down in his bed. His other “habit” it to have one pacifier in his mouth and hold the other in his hand. He literally crawls to the second one when you put him down and then tucks it right under his belly. Sometimes if he’s crying in his room it’s because he’s lost the second one out of his crib. Oh dear, this could be a bad habit to break! But for now, I’m happy to just let him be the baby he is!Wanted to include more than just the highlight reel. This is a regular expression of Reid’s when he’s frustrated or angry that what he wanted got taken away or he got removed from it, lol! And here we have a couple of examples of Griffin’s serious concentration football/sports face. I don’t know where he gets this stuff! Fierce!And I know this just seems like a silly picture of Reid sleeping – but I love to see him all snuggled and sleepy in his bed. He’s a true tummy sleeper just like Finn was. And he is beginning to look SO big in his bed! Debbie captured a few nice shots of Reid and Griffin this week. They made their traditional chicken noodle soup and went to the Touch-A-Truck event in Powell this week too. Reid has figured out how to suck out of baby food pouch all by himself now – so you can hand him a squeezie and he downs it pretty fast! Growing up! We have a mallard nest in our front walkway garden that has 6 eggs in it! Sadly, as I’m writing this post several weeks after the fact, the nest was gone a few days after we spotted it and we found one shell out in the front yard near the green maple. We think maybe the neighborhood fox may have discovered it – or some predator at least. 

April 29, 2018 ~ 49 weeks

The boys had fun this week being outside at the park, on walks, and doing the fun volcano experiment. Reid loved the swing at the park and Griffin gets really excited to push him and be a helper.  Look at the matchy-matchy socks and jammies. Griffin was so excited when I found pjs in Reid’s size that matched his newer dino jammies. And then we found socks too, lol. Griffin is still really in to his day of the week underwear and socks. Every day he asks what day it is and finds them in his drawer (usually the night before) and gets all matched up.
There have been a few times I’ve been in disbelief how much food that Reid eats during the day! I can’t ever seem to get Reid to eat much for me and one particular day Debbie put how much he ate and I was shocked! He is definitely a growing boy! He hums and reaches for something you might have or more of something he had on his plate.
Griffin and I took an evening adventure to Graeter’s one evening – complete in his jammies! He was so excited to go and at first in my head was thinking he would have to change into clothes and then I thought, why? Why be so perfect and have so many rules? So out we headed in our comfies to get some yummy ice cream. This boy sure has my sweet tooth. We got a new seat for Reid which is much like the one we had for Griffin though this one comes with a tray. At first I didn’t think I’d like the tray, but as it turns out it’s really nice to have something clean that we can put his food on and it has a cup holder which he thinks is great. This year on picture day for Flag Football they had a new digital format – each player got their photo taken in front of a green sheet (the coaches too) and then they photoshopped the team photo together. I was not a fan of this new method at all! We’ll see how the end product turns out.  Our sweet Brutus is always wanting affection. He regularly comes to me and just puts his head down on the bed, on my leg, on the chair, or wherever I am and just wants some lovin. And Lily regularly heads to the closet in our bathroom to her small camp-out spot. Especially if there is loud noises or any sort of package being opened. Somehow she became scared to death of popping bubble wrap or ripping tape off packages!