Our Lily Girl ~ September 8, 2020

Our sweet Lily girl brought so much fun and good memories into our family over the last nearly 12 years. When I was single I had a trio of three labs, Hailey (chocolate), Cameron (black) and Lily (white) and lived in a huge house. For more than a year and  a half it was just me and my girls. Kevin and I met when Lily had just turned three years old and was full of so much energy and spunk. When he would come over, all of the dogs were crazy and they jumped and ran all around. They all were really friendly with really terrible greeting manners, lol.  Kevin still mentions how she would jump up on him when he would first arrive and how nuts she was.

Back in the day I allowed all of the dogs on my bed and on the furniture. That has since changed, not only with their aging but also with new house rules. That never stopped Lily from being a great cuddler. As you’ll see in many of the pictures, she was constantly around her people, unless it was super noisy and then she resorted to getting in to small and quiet spaces. We most often found her in our upstairs bathroom closet where she would lay with her head sticking out. As our family grew and we welcomed Griffin and then Reid, she endured so much kids play. She was regularly dressed up into costume and made part of any activity. She was always there for it and allowed our boys to do whatever they wanted to her – always with a gentle spirit. She’d often give them some kisses while they were doing whatever it was they were doing to her at the time. And if she didn’t like it, you guessed it, she’d vanish off to a quiet closet in our bathroom.

On the Sunday of Labor Day weekend, the day after our super long bike ride, Lily was having what seemed to be a normal day. I was upstairs in our bedroom doing laundry and when Lily walked in the door from the white steps she seemed to be struggling some. Not sure why, so I went and talked to her and ended up carrying her to her bed in our room as she was pretty shaky. From that point on, she wasn’t ever able to walk again. Being a holiday weekend, we weren’t able to get in touch with our vet. She ate dinner on Sunday, but on Monday and after would no longer eat. Kevin or I carried her outside and back in each time for Sunday and Monday and Tuesday, and on Tuesday afternoon Kevin had made an appointment for her and we took her to the vet. Dr. Shearer did a complete exam on her, taking of 45 minutes to evaluate her. She gave us some possibilities of what could have happened, perhaps an injury to her spine or disk (like slipping down the stairs, which she had done a couple of times in recent months). She proposed a couple of treatments and left the decision to us. We decided her quality of life, even with proposed treatments, would not be ideal. She was unable to stand or walk and no longer wanted to eat. We knew it was time to put her down – but it was still an agonizing time and decision. She was down to only 59 pounds. Our hearts were broken. She was the last of my original trio of three and the ending of an era – so to speak.  Even with her bad joints and arthritis in recent years, she made it up and down the steps numerous times a day. She bunny hopped everywhere. She went into each of the boys rooms at night – every night – for bed time routine. She still loved to get outside and bask in the sunshine. She was sassy, had impeccable hearing and sight, and loved playing with Brutus. He’s not known life without her. The house is just strange, even still posting this almost two months after her passing. Her high-alert-barking when we arrive home or someone rings the doorbell is just weird silence. My how we miss our sweet girl.

We had Lily cremated, as with our other girls, and when we picked up her ashes at the vet they included the most kind, hand-made, customized card with notes from some staff members. They also included each of her pawprints, which when I saw them caused the tears to flow. We really love all of the staff at Powell Vet.

We’re thankful for the lovely cards, flowers, and cookies given to us by our family and friends.

 


August 1-31, 2020

Going through all of the photos and looking back at August – we had a really fun month! Soaking in the sun with lots of time at the pool with friends and our final swim lesson. One of the days was only in the high 60’s so the kids enjoyed the hot tub for the first time. That was quite a treat.

Sometimes I find it hard to believe that I used to grow plants. Seems like a former life! I have enjoyed having a garden again this yet but find that I am terrible at regularly watering our patio planters and garden beds. Argh! But we have enjoyed a good harvest of cucumbers, red, yellow, and green peppers, and a few yellow squash and zucchini. I didn’t realize how susceptible zucchini are to blossom end rot – well we had our fair share of that this year! We’ve been adding the veggies to our Hello Fresh dinners.

 

After nearly 6 years of not having the pantry doors trimmed out since our kitchen remodel, Kevin and I teamed up to get it done! He was measured and cut all the trim and I painted it; then he put it in. Yay! One thing off the list.

We’ve also been finishing up the porch since returning from vacation. The carpenters trimmed out all of the windows, both the skylights and the wall windows, they finished the ceiling beam, and painted it all white. We decided to put in a wood laminate floor to make it feel a bit more finished. We chose a light grey, which, along with the white walls makes it feel very clean and bright. We did some touch ups, caulking, and then put together the new sectional couch and table and now it’s ready to be enjoyed.

Griffin’s upper tooth has been sooooo wiggly yet he doesn’t want to have it pulled! One night I was worried he might choke on it in his sleep and Kevin was looking at it – and surprisingly pulled it. Griffin was pretty upset as he wasn’t expecting it  hence the teary eyes :(. But in the end, he was looking forward to the tooth fairy visiting later that evening.

Here are a few other random photos of our month – super cute cowboys playing around the house, Reidy wearing his oversized Camp B shirt, our family adventures to Rita’s and Culvers on our bikes.

Griffin was invited to his 1st grade friend, Kara’s, birthday party. It was to be a socially distanced drive by – but when we arrived people were in the driveway. We had our masks on so we went up for a quick hello. It was really sweet to see how much these friends enjoyed being able to see each other in person. They played a quick game of hide and seek, colored in the driveway, and enjoyed popsicles. It was a really hot afternoon.

We had left a driveway gathering in our neighborhood (our driveway actually, lol) to head to the birthday drive-by and were gone longer than we anticipated. So on our return home we picked up pizza for all the kids to have outside while watching the CBJ game that Brian setup in their driveway. These kids have so much fun together. Before long they were all playing hockey and each had gone home to get their jerseys to wear. We’re really thankful to have such a great pod of neighborhood friends. Both kids and adults enjoy hanging out together and it’s provided some sense of normalcy during the times of Corona.

Our neighbor, Karla, had organized a private rental of Sky Zone for our neighborhood crew. We were able to have the entire place to ourselves for a couple of hours on a Saturday morning. The kids had an absolute blast and left there a sweaty mess! Everyone wore their masks (other than Reid who takes his off after a short bit, and baby Abbie).

 

Later that day was our socially distanced neighborhood Block Party. Chrissie arranged for the Pitabilities food truck and Lyndsey arranged for Kona ice. It was mostly our regular crew of neighbors who attended and a few others as well. The adults wore masks and spaced out in Chrissie and Scotts driveway and yard as well as Don & Beth Maxwells yard. Beth makes the most wonderful and perfect looking desserts that she made for the gathering. She and Don are in their late 80’s and are just the most fun couple. They participate in everything before and during Corona (socially distanced and masked) and comment on all the facebook posts our neighborhood crews make. Since our kids play together regularly we allowed them to play and sit together without wearing their masks. We were able to meet new neighbors who just moved in within the last week, Katy & Eric Deister, who are expecting a little boy in early November.

On August 28th we took the boys to our first inside-dining experience since early March. We went to Bd’s Mongolian Grill where Reid ate not 1, but 2 orders of Mac and Cheese. Griffin had chicken tenders and the other kids created their own made-to-order dishes. The boys did great sitting together at the table and not touching things. Kevin and I were both a bit nervous as it was our first time sitting inside, but it turned out fine and it was nice to do something “normal”.

We’ve gone to Nocterra a few times where we’re able to sit outside at picnic tables and enjoy some relaxing. They’ve partnered with a local Powell company called Sharecuterie, makers of grazing boards and boxes, that you can have delivered to Nocterra on Monday’s for free. We decided to try it out and it was delish! Tons of fun sweet and savory things in our grazing box that we shared with Lisa and Brian in celebration of their 2 year wedding reception-iversary, lol.

I finally scheduled the boys dental checkups after much delay. I was nervous that they would both have cavities and wasn’t sure how Reid would do as he is very shy and apprehensive in new or uncertain situations. Both boys did really well when it was their turn in the chair. Griffin, unfortunately, had 2 cavities – each between teeth – which makes me feel like a terrible mom as I am not a good regular flosser for these boys, nor do I remind them to do it! So – we will be working on that! Reid had a perfect checkup, no cavities.

 

After the dentist we had a little fun visiting the new pedestrian bridge in Bridge Park. It gave this mama quite a test of my nerves! I held both of their hands tight – even though there are wires and rails, I get pretty freaked out these days about heights and especially with Reid in situations like these. But we walked across from one side to the other where the boys did a little running around. Then we headed back over the bridge and went home. Whew!

 

I’m not sure why I didn’t really put much thought into a workspace for Griffin to do Distance Learning, but about 2 weeks before school started I began to think we needed to have a dedicated workspace for Griffin. That began a total basement cleaning/purging/painting party and the quest for desks (which by the way are in short supply everywhere since everyone in the world is looking for desks for kids to learn from home!). As it turns out, Lexi broke her foot at a horse show and needed to have the week off work. The timing actually was perfect as I was forced to stay home with the kids, which enabled me to get the basement complete. The kids built a lot of forts and kept themselves busy for a few days. I NEVER would have gotten it done on time otherwise; it was a much larger and time consuming project that I had anticipated. In the end, we have new white walls, found desk parts at IKEA, and turned the kids side of the basement into a classroom. I’m pretty happy with the way it turned out.

 

We were able to stop at Tyler Run and pick up the school supply kit that I had ordered for Griffin. He was excited to be able to go to school and see it! And when we got home the boys each organized their school supplies. So much joy in school supplies!

 

While we see a lot of our neighbors, we haven’t seen many of our friends in what seems like forever. Thankfully, we were able to connect with the Manning’s one evening at Nocterra. We had so much fun just sitting around and talking!

 

After five years, we have finally arranged to have Memorials placed at our cemetery plots in the Dublin Cemetery. We’ve ordered our Armstrong family stone as well as Nathan’s marker. We started this process in July and it is pretty much a slow-going-thing. Coordination between the cemetery and the stone company is not so efficient! And then the weather has to be just so, so that the cement footers can be dug out and then poured. We stop by occasionally to check the progress. So far, the footer has been poured for Nathan’s marker, but only the foundation has been dug for the family stone.

 

Random photo of me outside enjoying coffee in one of my favorite mugs – a painting of Griffin’s from 1st grade 🙂

 

We had fun at the Bethune’s to celebrate Rowan’s 9th birthday. Nine, what? Not sure how everyone is growing up so darn fast, but it seems to be happening despite my best efforts to slow time down. Rowan had an all-things-Pokemon party complete with an awesome Pokemon cake made by Amy as well as homemade Pokemon cookies. Reid was in sugar heaven. Rowie received a hover board and was already demonstrating excellent skills. He allowed Griffin to try it out and he, of course, thought it was pretty sweet.

 

Lexi invited us to one of her horse shows, which was local in Marysville. We headed up about mid-morning and thought we’d be there until mid-afternoon. As it turns out we were there until 10 pm! But it was such a fun time we couldn’t leave! We were able to see Lexi compete with Tango in several events and the boys were enamored with petting, feeding, and riding Tango. Pretty sure Griffin wants a horse now, lol. It took Reid a bit to warm up, but then he was all-things-Tango. Lexi’s Mom and Dad were there and we enjoyed spending several hours talking with them throughout the day. Others from Lexi’s barn were there too, including some she gives riding lessons to, so it was neat to see her in her element. She really helps kids boost their confidence.

We’ll end with a crazy goofy pic of silliness in the basement and the kids riding Tango all by themselves with Lexi’s lead. They had so much fun!


July 2020 – except vacation!

Vacation at Camp B will require a post all its own as the sheer number of pictures I have is crazy! So this post will have the rest of our adventures in July.

We began the 4th of July with a bike ride to breakfast at Tim Horton’s in Powell. We thought it would be fun  to ride around town some and as it turned out it evolved into a 15 mile ride with pit stops at some fun placed around town like Dairy Queen and Nocterra! It was quite an adventure and afterward Griffin and I chilled out on the couch while Reid and Kevin took naps.

We’ve enjoyed several nice days of warm weather and outdoor play. The boys have also begun swim lessons with an instructor at our neighbors pool. Turns out it’s a really fun day as after lessons we all swim for a couple hours and have a pizza lunch. Pretty nice way to spend a few hours! Our garden grew quite a bit while we were away so we came home to a bountiful harvest!  I’m trying to get  in some days off while it’s still “summer” so to end the month I took a day off and took the boys to Shale Hollow. It’s a nice park about 15 minutes from our house. There is a ton of shade, creeks to walk in, and a natural playground. We took a picnic lunch and it was all I could do to get the boys to go home! Though once we hit the car they were zonked.

Including this one for giggles, lol. Reid seems to have an affinity lately for walking around nu-nu. One early evening I was outside watering the plants and this kid arrives naked and full of silly giggles. Kevin was working and got a ring notification and captured the picture, ha!

 

The boys continue to have a lot of fun during the day with Lexi. She plans fun themed days, with their help, and they are a big hit. This one in particular Griffin really enjoyed. Jammies all day!

 

Griffin lost his first upper tooth! Kevin asked him if he wanted it pulled and Griffin initially said yes, and then changed his mind. So Kevin didn’t end up pulling it after all, however, a day or two later Reid accidentally kicked Griffin and out came his tooth!

 

A few more pictures of Reid falling asleep in all kinds of places and positions! He can sleep anywhere.

We’ve been having a lot of fun time with Brutus and Lily lately. Lots of snuggles and blankets. Reid just adores Lily and can regularly be found sitting near her talking to her and petting her. But if you let him know you see him doing it he asks you to not look at him. Ha!

We got to meet baby Summer! She was born on July 11th (4 days early) and Haya and her husband Mohammad came over when she was 11 days old! Reid and Griffin couldn’t wait to hold her. Haya couldn’t get her out of her car seat fast enough! Lexi stayed to meet Haya as well. It was a fun hour and a half of rotating baby Summer amongst us. Reid was so in love with her he just wanted to help do everything. As you can see he fed her and then promptly wiped her lips. Griffin put her to sleep!

Kevin met up with Deven one evening whom he hadn’t seen in ages. They enjoyed some outdoor time at Nocterra.

We’re trying to wrap up our unfinished porch and Kevin was able to find a carpenter to finish the trim work all around the room including the windows and finish the beams up top. We also had the entire thing painted white. It adds a nice amount of brightness to our family room. Kevin has begun installing flooring which should be complete soon. Finalized pics to come in August.

That’s a wrap on July!