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January 2022

We began 2022 with a pretty wild ride in the Armstrong family. The first few days were pretty low key with New Years Eve, a nice New Years dinner, and taking down the tree. Forewarning this is a long post!!

Griffin gave me this Mom pin for Christmas which I took to work and put on my overhead cabinet. He’s been writing nice little letters to me. I loved coming home from walking Brutus in the early morning before work to find my coffee made with a lovely note for the day. It is still hanging on my wall at work. Little did we know that later that evening Griffin’s knee would begin to bother him.

On Wednesday evening, January 5th, Griffin had a scouting event where they boys were making wooden shelves. He had a really fun time and came home excited to show me his project. He was also limping a bit and said that his knee (right) was bothering him. We didn’t think much of it (honestly I thought he was exaggerating) though he really wasn’t interested in dinner and was hobbling around. He went to bed without really eating. Around 2 am he came into our room sobbing in tears saying his knee hurt so badly and that he had been calling for us. He thought it was morning and sadly we hadn’t heard him. We looked at his knee and could see it was a bit swollen. We figured it was likely growing pains…..  He stayed home from school on Thursday morning and by mid-to-late morning decided he wanted to go to school. Kevin took him and then I picked him up early as he and Reid had appointments for their annual eye exams. Griffin was really uncomfortable and by the end of the appointment was barely able to walk or put much pressure on his right leg. I was getting pretty worried so I called Kevin and we decided to make an appointment at the pediatrician. Thankfully they had a 10 am Friday appointment with Dr. Houts, our absolute favorite within the group. Kevin took him as I was a ball of nerves. Dr. Houts examined Griffin’s knee and suggested possible juvenile arthritis but couldn’t be certain. He sent them on their way and said that they would be in touch with us by early afternoon with next steps. He was attempting to get us a referral at Children’s for bloodwork / a pediatric Rheumatologist, but seeing as it was getting later on a Friday afternoon once they contacted us we were directed to take Griffin to the ER at Nationwide Children’s and they would have work orders to be completed.

Griffin, Kevin, and I loaded into the car (I dropped Reid off and decided not to go to work but rather come home) and headed downtown. We arrived around 3 pm and were checked in and  seen fairly quickly. Griffin had his vitals taken (all were good and no fever). In triage he had his blood drawn (via and IV port they put in, in the event he needed additional testing/fluids) and eventually an xray and ultrasound. The ultrasound showed that he had fluid under his knee cap. As a result, they did a knee tap procedure and removed 25-30 ccs of fluid – which is a lot! The fluid will be tested to determine if there is an infection.

This was a really painful procedure as under the guidance of one of the physicians we opted to go the route of not putting Griffin under a sedative. The knee tap procedure if a quick one and we decided all of the anesthetic was a bit of overkill. Instead, he had a medication that just kind of made him “loopy” but not asleep. However, when they tapped in the knee he arched his back and became stiff as a rod and screamed bloody murder into Kevin’s eyes and begged him to make it stop.  Ugh.  It was utterly horrible and we both felt so terrible that he was in that much pain. He cried and was scared for some time after that. He also began to fear any pokes or needles that were talked about for future tests.

After much waiting in the ER room and numerous visits from all kinds of doctors and staff (Ortho who did the knee tap, Residents, Attendings, nurses, etc) we learned from the Ortho doctor around 10:30 pm that Griffin had an extremely high white blood cell count – over 140K – the highest the doctor has ever seen. He said he even called the lab to ensure the result was correct and not an error in data entry.  As a result, they planned to do a knee wash out procedure (they do this if the WBC are above 50K) which is a laparoscopic surgery. He said they were not yet able to identify the bacteria (from the earlier sample of fluid – he noted that any count over 50K is typically bacteria, less than that can be viral) so they continue to culture the sample and it will result in 2-3 days. They will do more culture with the sample they get from the surgery. In order to be admitted, Griffin had to have a COVID test so once we had that we were assigned a room, which we moved to around midnight. We were assigned a room on the Infectious Disease floor.

The surgery was scheduled for Saturday morning, January 7th, at 7 am.  They came in to our room just before 7 am and transported Griffin down to the pre-surgery area where we traveled with him. We were visited by the anesthesiologist and the doctor (Reid Chambers) who would be performing the surgery. Griffin was so brave and also very nervous and sad and scared about all of this as was I (though I had on my strong Mom face for sure). The surgery is about a half hour long, but it will take and hour or more for the entire process. They gave him the anesthesia (he chose a bubble gum mask) and then took him back for surgery around 7:35 am. Kevin and I waited in the waiting room and checked the monitors for the different phases of Griffin’s status. Surgery began at 8:02 am. Kevin got me a nice cup of coffee for while we waited. It seemed like awhile but was pretty quick.  The surgery finished around 8:40 am and Dr. Reid Chambers came out and talked with us. He said he got it all cleaned out and there was definitely lots of “gunk” that he got out and also cleaned the inflamed tissue. Griffin was in recovery for a bit so we grabbed a bite to eat and then we headed back to the room where we met him when they returned him to the room around 9:55 am from recovery. Whew. What a whirlwind of less than 24 hours since our visit to the pediatrician. We are so very thankful for the care we received all along the way. The quick thinking of our pediatrician and the actions of the team at Children’s. This was all pretty nerve wracking.

After we’d been in the room for a bit after the surgery we were visited by Dr. Becky Wallahan, an Infectious Disease physician. She and a cohort visited and went through where we are and what we’re waiting on. She noted it could possibly be Lyme as it is a localized infection and no he’s had no fevers throughout this event. Ugh. This was stressful news for us as it wasn’t a diagnoses but rather a what-could-be idea. So we wait for an unknown period of time until we’re told more. Not my strong suit! I had gone home during the late morning to shower and get some things. Our lovely neighbors the Duncans and Bolans had brought over cards and a gift bag that I took back to the hospital. He was super pumped to open fun things! Then Griffin slept quite a bit later in the day of surgery (Saturday). After watching the Bengals with daddy he fell asleep around 5 pm and slept until 4:20 am.  Throughout this time he was having regular doses of Clindamycin (a half hour IV drip) every 8 hours as well as regular vital checks.

On Sunday morning around 5 am (when he woke up!) we gave him the gift from Grandma and Grandpa Armstrong which was great timing as it was delayed from Christmas! It was a Tonie Box carrier and new tonies. This was perfect and was used a lot at the hospital to keep Griffin occupied and helping him to sleep and drown out all of the noises at the hospital. Around 9am or so on Sunday the drain was removed from his knee. The surgery site (one hole at the top and two holes at the bottom of the knee) looked really great!. His knee was kept elevated and he continued to rest.

Around 10:30 am Sunday we were visited by Julie from the Research team. She researches Staphylococcus aurea. Interestingly, we hadn’t yet been given a diagnoses yet we were being asked if we wanted to participate in a study! Griffin would be #298 of enrolled kids in the study. We let Griffin decide as it would involve more needle pokes (but also pays out a financial reward for participation). He was upset and crying but decided he wanted to do it so he could help other kids in the same situation.

Next, around 11:20 am we were visited by Dr. Becky Wallihan again (ID doctor). Unfortunately, there still wasn’t much clarity. She noted there was staphylococcus growing in the culture but that more time was needed to determine what type (aureus would indicate infection, others would indicate contamination from when the knee fluid was taken). Still no results on Lyme (as expected to not have this as it’s the weekend). We were told we would be at the hospital until at least Monday and that is if they were able to identify and confirm the strain and then confirm the appropriate antibiotic was working to kill it (in the lab). If the result is a contaminant, that would reset the path/plan.  This was definitely a long period of waiting and confusion and frustration!

Around 12:30pm on Sunday we had a visit from Physical Therapy who had Griffin get up and walk around the room to demonstrate his walking. He wasn’t yet fulling straightening his leg when walking, which is normal. She had him to a sitting exercise on the couch where he slowly slid his right foot forward and then backward (while foot is flat on the floor). We were to look for twinges or body compensation when doing the extensions and pull backs. He was instructed to do 10 reps 3 times per day.

Sunday night was a rough night of sleep for Griffin as he had a stomach ache (likely from the many doses of antibiotics he’s been given and they also changed antibiotics from the Clindamycin IV drip to Nafcillin IV drip). Around 6:25 am the Ortho Resident who had been rounding (who drew the knee fluid also) checked out Griffin’s movement and said it was good. As far as Orto was concerned, as long as ID has him on the correct antibiotics he would be able to go home Monday! Around 8:50 am Dr. Garret Hunt and residents, interns, etc., rounded on Griffin and conducted an Infectious Disease review just outside Griffin’s door in the hallway. He reviewed all of Griffin’s case notes, talked about discharge, and home care as well as prescription information. I don’t even recall the time or person who actually confirmed that it was diagnosed as Staphlycoccus aureus, but that is what he is being treated for. Around 10 am a phlebotomist stopped by to get Griffins’ blood for both research and the labs ordered by Dr. Hunt for discharge. She had LOTS of trouble getting blood out of the IV port and she tried numerous tricks. Finally she was able to get all she needed but it was rather stressful and traumatizing for Griffin after the knee tap needle scenario. She also swabbed behind each ear, inside of each elbow and inside of each nostril . Around 11 am we were visited by PT for a follow up visit – who noted that he is doing GREAT!  At 11:30 Griffin took his first oral dose of Antibiotics at the hospital (required before they would discharge him to ensure he will take it). It is 22 mls – which is a huge volume and it doesn’t taste good though it’s also not the worst of the options…..so I guess we’re grateful they put him on Cephalexin.  Around noon we were visited by a nurse with discharge instructions and by 12:30p we were outta there!

Here are the many pictures to go with the story!

This was Griffin’s knee (right) at 2 am when he came in to our room crying.

 

This was Griffin’s knee in the morning Thursday, around 8 am or so. His pain rating wasn’t as high (6,5) as it was in the night (we didn’t ask him for a number then). By the end of his eye appointment the pain was at an 8. At the hospital in the waiting room it was a 4 (we had given him Motrin after the pediatrician appointment). By 11 pm, after the knee fluid draw procedure his movement was more comfortable (leg not as tight) but his pain rating was a 5.75 as he hadn’t been given any further Motrin since 11 am when we were home prior to arriving at the hospital.

 

After the knee tap procedure in the ER.

The x-ray machine in the ER.

The Ultrasound machine and room at the ER.

Our room that we arrived to around midnight, Friday night/Saturday morning.

My naïve self thought when we left for the hospital around 2 pm or so that we would be back in time to let Lilly go around 4:30/5p.  WRONG!  So I reached out to Mom and Dad to see if they could let Lilly go until we got home (little did I know we wouldn’t get home!). They gladly helped out and Mom even made Reid some of his favorite color play-doh! They had a fun afternoon and evening of playing together and we even did some FaceTime with Griffin during my stop home on Saturday morning!

Since we had no idea how long we may be at the hospital, Jim and Pat came up to relieve Mom and Dad on Saturday. They enjoyed some time with Reidy too.

Griffin opening all of his fun gifts from family and friends.

Griffin in pre-surgery area prior to anesthesia.

Post-surgery checking the surgery site.

The hospital brought in some play toys to keep Griffin busy and also gave him some PJ pants and a lovely fleece blanket to keep!

Visit from Physical Therapy.

Watching the Bengals to pass the time and lots of time to eat in the hospital!

He’s up and moving all around 🙂

This was after the visit from the research team and talk of needle pokes and blood draws.

Our floor and the view just outside our door, luckily we were the first room on the floor so we didn’t have to walk by much to get to our room on the Infectious Disease floor.

Happiest kid around – I’M GOIN HOME!!

Kevin and I saw a lot of views of the hospital but this was the only time Griffin saw any of the cool walls, trees, animals, and things they have in the hospital – on his escort to the car!

Welcome home! Lilly and Reid were there to greet all of us and Griffin was visited shortly after by all of his neighborhood pals!

Griffin had a recheck at Powell Pediatrics a day or two after going home. Everything was looking good. He went back to school on Wednesday with some restrictions (no running until follow up visit with Ortho on 1/19). Thankful for his GABB watch so I can check in on him.

Reid has been having a good month in Monkey class with his friends. Here are some photos from the app.

Griffin’s knee is continuing to look better. Still some swelling.

On January 14th we gathered at Amy and Andy’s to celebrate Andy’s birthday! Kevin hadn’t been feeling well and had given himself a Covid test which was negative. None of us have gotten much rest over the last week and he was feeling pretty run down. Unfortunately almost a week later Kevin tested positive for Covid. He was really feeling terrible. So we setup a quarantine room for him in our guest room and the boys and I hung out elsewhere. Then, on Friday morning Griffin woke up and told me he had a headache. Hmmm….so I decided to get him tested at Powell Pediatrics and wouldn’t you know – he was also positive.  Ugh.  Go away bad news! So now he and Griffin are hanging together.  I figured to be a good human I should also test myself and Reid so I scheduled appointments for Reid and me at the Urgent Care in Delaware where Kevin went. They won’t do testing without symptoms so I told them Reid was very tired and sore throat (true on the first, a bit far fetched on the second -but he did fall asleep on the way there and was totally fussy the entire time we were there). They did a PCR throat swap for Reid and a PCR nasal swab for me. We had results by Saturday morning – Reid positive and I was negative. Neither of the boys really felt unwell but both quarantined – Reid for the next week and Griffin until Wednesday.

Before and during COVID quarantine Griffin worked on his Derby Car for Cub Scouts. Unfortunately, he wasn’t able to go to the Pinewood Derby race due to having Covid. I was able to dropoff the car for the scouts to still include it in the races though and we were able to watch remotely!

When we went home from the hospital Griffin was on 22ml of Cephalexin oral antibiotics every 8 hours for 3 weeks. Yikes! In order to not have to send medication to school, we stuck with an 8 am, 4 pm, 12 am schedule with parent pickup for these weeks to ensure he’s home for his meds. The midnight dose was not a fun one – who wants woken up to drink terrible tasting meds! But we made it through and Griffin was a champ. He turned it in to a competition of how fast he could down it and he got it down to just a couple seconds  – which was amazing compared to the initial 15-20 mins of coercing necessary in the beginning. He also made a nice log to keep track of taking his meds.

This was his first day at indoor soccer practice one he was cleared from PT! He was a happy kiddo, and I was a bit nervous!

Here are some other pics from January – some progress on Mom and Dad’s basement finishing project, and a few other randoms!

May 21, 2017 and the arrival of our baby boy!

This week was yet again another busy spring week. Not only with my work schedule and Kevin’s work schedule, but we also had appointments for Brutus, Lily, and our carpet installation.  Whew. And on top of that, as it turns out it was our last week as a family of three!

On Wednesday Brutus had an appointment with the vet to get neutered. The vet recommended he get fixed between 6 and 12 months, so this puts just shy of 8 months. Plus, you know, we figure since Lily is done with her cone of shame – isn’t it Brutus’ turn?  Joking of course. And as it turns out he’s quite scared and bothered by the cone. You put it on his head and he almost hovers and cowers to the floor! We certainly didn’t follow the advice of having it on him a majority of the time and as it turns out he healed just fine. He really didn’t bother his stitches and limiting his activity wasn’t really in the cards. He basically acted like nothing even happened. As a matter of fact I didn’t snap a single photo to document his disposition during any of it!

Kevin dropped Brutus off so I could be at work by 7 am to get setup for an employee appreciation event. We hired Chris Cakes to come out to Millcreek for a Pancake and Sausage breakfast for our employees. We’ve had a great year thus far, working not nearly as late into the evenings as we have in the past. We have a really smooth system that is working well and the team of people this year seems to be working like a well-oiled machine even though we have many new seasonals. So, as a thank you we started off the day with an all-you-can-eat pancake and sausage breakfast. One caveat is you have to catch your pancakes as he flips them to you. It was a fun start to the day.

I had to book it out of work and head to my weekly appointment for my non-stress test.  This week the test went well, however, my blood pressure was pretty high even after taking it several times over the course of my visit. I’ve been feeling really well this entire time and honestly not even uncomfortable. My blood pressure has periodically been up, but then the next visit it’s back to normal so it’s not been a concern. Today, however, they mentioned doing a blood panel to check out where things stand. After meeting with my doctor and discussing my current status  she wanted me to have an ultrasound to ensure he was still head down. As it turns out he was in the “oblique” position, which is sort of a 45 degree angle with his head down and feet off to my right side.  Kevin wasn’t able to be there, but I was able to get another sneak peak of our little boy and also an updated size estimate (today they estimated 8.5 pounds!). With all of that activity I had forgotten to inquire about the blood work and she didn’t mention it. So while I was checking out I mentioned to the front desk that they said the doctor may want to do lab work, but that I’d forgotten to discuss it with her. They went back and asked her, and thankfully I asked, as she did decide to have a blood panel workup done. So I waited a few more minutes and had my blood drawn before heading back to work. 

I wasn’t at work long before I had to leave to pickup Lily! She had her 2 month follow up appointment where they took radiographs of her right leg to check on the healing of the bone following her surgery. Kevin dropped her off in the morning (which by the way I had totally forgotten she wasn’t supposed to eat since they sedate her – oops!) and I picked her up once she was ready. It was really cool to see the before and after x-rays and speak with the doctor about her recovery. They asked if we had been limiting her activity and of course we had with her play pen in the kitchen for the last 2 months. I thought perhaps they were going to mention an issue with her healing – but to my surprise and excitement they said her bone healing looks amazing. It’s about as awesome as it gets. When looking at the below images, the “after” is on the left and the “before” taken at the completion of her surgery is on the right. The amazing part is you really can’t even see the line where the bone was cut and grew back together. It’s also rather interesting to see the plate and screws in her leg! After I dropped Lily at home I headed back to work for a couple of hours. When I got home and it was still light out Griffin and I went out and I walked and he rode his balance bike.  I hadn’t been progressing much in regards to my body getting ready to deliver a baby so my doctor suggested using a balance/yoga ball and also walking. So we headed out on a 30-40 minute excursion and stopped along the way at the ponds to check for ducks and to throw in some rocks. When we got back we enjoyed sitting in our front garden for a bit. It’s looking quite nice this year. Each week we have something new blooming and I’ve tried to lay it out so we have some repeating color and plants in large blocks. I’m happy with how it is coming together :). 

Here are a few pics from the touch-a-truck event that Finn went to with Debbie on Friday. 

On Friday morning I woke up with a very slight headache. I’ve been checking my blood pressure periodically at home, so Kevin got me setup and took my pressure. It was in the 160’s over 100’s. We took it a few times and consistently got the same thing. I got up and ready and headed in to work. I’d been there an hour or so and Kevin texted to see if my headache was any better, which it wasn’t, so he said I really should call my doctor.  I started getting a bit uneasy since it was Friday and we were heading into the weekend. On one hand I didn’t want to have regrets about not letting them know about my headache and home bp readings, but on the other hand I thought it was silly to call and tell them I had a headache!  Anyway, I thought Kevin was right and I should probably call. So when I spoke to the nurse I mentioned my blood draw from Wednesday and that I hadn’t heard anything and assumed no news is good news? She thought it was best for me to come in so they could get a reading of their own and see me.  So an hour later I was at their office and my blood pressure reading was about the same, 160’s/100’s. Because of that, they took me into a room and had me lye on my left side and then rechecked it about 15 minutes later and it was much better, high 130’s/low 90’s.  I figured I was good to go with the double thumbs up sign from the nurse! Then Dr. Guiness came in (I’ve seen her a couple times towards the end of my pregnancy as Dr. Costa has been out of the office). She asked how I felt and I said really pretty good other than my dull headache. She explained that my blood work looked pretty good, but did show that I had an elevated enzyme and a decreased platelet count. That along with my increased blood pressure, and that I had progressed from 1-2 cm to 3 cm since Wednesday is my body beginning to tell me that it is time. She said if I were 6 weeks from my due date, she would be inclined to monitor me, but since my due date is 2 days away she’s thinking she’d like to just send me to Riverside Labor and Delivery and be induced.  What??!! That is NOT what I was thinking she would say after the better blood pressure reading and the double thumbs up from the head nurse! I thought maybe some bed rest or something along those lines. After all, at work I had told them I’d be back after I had my blood pressure checked!  So….Dr. Guiness said if I deliver by 5 pm it would be her making the delivery, but if after that it would be Dr. Plante who happened to be out in the hallway. So she said to head home and get my bag and then head to Riverside and they would let them know that I would be heading in! Dr. Guiness introduced me to Dr. Plante on my way out the back door of the office.  It was great, she was like “so, let’s go have a baby!”.  I was relieved to have met her in advance of being at the hospital. We briefly discussed my status and the gameplan of breaking my water and pitocin, along with where things stand in my pregnancy and then I headed to the car. I immediately called Kevin, who was working from home, and told him the update and they started crying some! I wasn’t prepared for them to say “head to the hospital!” and he had plans to meet a friend at 2 pm for drinks and conversation! But as always, he was very encouraging and said “this is great! We are that much closer to meeting our son!”. So the dominoes were set into action. He called Debbie, who was at a touch-a truck event in Worthington with Griffin and asked her to come home so we could say bye to Finn. He called his parents and asked them to come up to relieve Debbie. I called my parents and sister who were going to be coming to the hospital.

Since we had carpet installed on Wednesday in the nursery and guest bedrooms, we hadn’t had time to put the rooms and beds back together! And of course, there was a huge snag/tear in the carpet for the guest room so they only installed it partially as it will need replaced. So, Kevin put together the bed in the guest room so his parents would have a place to sleep while staying with Griffin. We finished packing our hospital bags, got showered, and were able to give Finn some hugs and kisses and explain that we were going to be heading down to Riverside so his brother could be born!

The timing of everything ended up being perfect and looking back I’m glad for the decision Dr. Guiness made to send me to the hospital. It was a Friday afternoon and we arrived around 1:30 pm and got checked in to our room. Just as we were in our room and the nurse was getting acquainted with us and giving me the hospital gown to put on I was heading in to the bathroom and thought, “hmm, that feels weird”. I had been having Braxton Hicks contractions and as it turns out my water had broken. Not a big break (thank goodness as I have extra fluid they say) but just a slight leak. As things moved along and we got all checked in and the nurse got everything up to date in the computer system and got me hooked up to various monitors my contractions continued to progress. They were at pretty regular intervals of 5 minutes or less. And at this point I didn’t even need any pitocin, thankfully. My parents had arrived also and around 4 pm they broke my water fully. That was a lot of fluid. Let me just say I was happy to have had that happen in the hospital and not while I was at work or in my car or in a public place! My contractions continued to get stronger at this point. My sister arrived also and it was great to have the support of our families – some with us at the hospital and others at home with Griffin!

Because of my experience laboring with Griffin, I wanted to go as far as possible before I got an epidural this time. I was moving along and by 7 pm I was about 7-8 cm and the contractions were pretty strong and I was ready for the epidural. It happened just prior to the nurse changeover and our nurse who’d been with us the entire time to this point said “I think we’re going to have a baby in a couple of hours!”. But as it turns out, my body does weird things! I had an extremely similar labor to Griffin’s from this point forward. My contractions remained regular but the time between them increased. The dilation of my cervix slowed down. It was difficult for them to maintain readings on the external monitors, so they switched to the internal monitors for both my contractions and the baby’s heartbeat. After awhile the baby’s heart rate would dip here and there so they decided to reintroduce fluid to my uterus – all of the same things that happened with Griffin! The nurses frequently checked my cervix and the baby had finally gotten into a good vertical position. They brought in one of the head nurses to check the baby’s position (her nickname there is “magic hands” as she has long fingers and specializes in determining the position of the baby). She told us that the baby is now completely up and down, however, his head was turned to the side. He obviously couldn’t be delivered that way, as that would mean he would be exiting with the widest part of his head. She explained this game plan: 40 minutes in one position of me on my right hip, right let bent and against the stirrup in the bed, left leg fully extended and my body positioned to curl onto my belly as much as possible.  Then 40 minutes on my hands and knees. Next: 40 minutes in the first position, only on my left side.  Then 40 minutes sitting up in the “throne” position. If after that the baby’s head hadn’t turned, she said it would be the doctors decision but she thinks based on his heart-rate strip that she would opt for a c-section. Ugh. This hadn’t been without stress! I was shaking crazily and somewhat uncontrollably. The nurses say it’s sometimes how your body reacts during active labor and it was also my from nerves (I know this as when I forced myself to take a deep breath and relax, they would go away briefly!). A few times when I had to lie on my back so they could check my cervix I felt really “off” and they gave me the oxygen mask to wear.  I’m not sure if I felt faint or what it was but I just didn’t feel normal!  At the end, in the throne position I has curled forward around a yoga ball, just hugging it.  And thankfully, after all of that – his head had turned! Praise the Lord. At that point, my cervix was around 9 cm, but there was still a small part kind of in the way. So once again, “magic hands” came in and had me push a couple of times to somehow move it around out of the way. At this point they said it was go time and had called the doctor and things went pretty quickly. There was some chatter like “where is Dr. Plante? I thought she was up in her office here?”, “oh, I thought she was in her car?” and as they were discussing this in she walked! The nurse had told me when it was time to push, that she needed me to push harder that I even think I could. Basically that it needed to be fast to get him out. So, Dr. Plante got suited up quickly and with the next contraction I pushed as hard as I could. The doctors and nurses were very encouraging.  Then, with the next contraction she told me in advance to push as hard as I could until she asked me to letup, then push super hard again in the same contraction. So, next came the contraction and that’s what I did – pushed super hard, let up while she did something – not really sure what, and then I pushed super hard again and he began to emerge! She asked me to letup a bit, this time while I believe she removed the cord some from his neck as he was exiting. All the while she was like “oh my goodness, we have a big one!” Then she asked me to push again and then he was all the way out! It was 1:51 am, May 20th. I just remember her saying how big he was! He did look quite big and his face was puffy! He had super huge cheeks and dark hair. He cried a little bit, Kevin was able to cut the cord, and he laid on my chest while I just looked at him 🙂 He definitely looks different than Griffin, dark hair and plenty of hit, but not as thick or long as Griffin’s.

Over the next 30-40 minutes we just got to hold him and look at him. We marveled at how long his fingers were, and in particular his nail beds (not just his long nails that already needed trimmed!). He also had big feet! At this point I was really curious how much he weighed since the doctor said he was a big boy! As it turns out, now they wait until at least 1 hour for the nurse to come in and weigh and measure them and put the vitamin K drops in their eyes. So before she came in I was able to nurse him. He caught on right away and did great. I was happy and surprised. It seemed so much easier than my experience when Griffin was born. All that past experience was quite helpful!.

So, here are many photos from the day. These are just our candids from our phones and camera. I’ll do another post of all the pretty and professional ones that we are grateful Amy was able to take. It was really lovely to have her there to capture his birth. Mind you, I haven’t told you his name yet as we hadn’t decided fully on that yet! He was born at 1:51 am, we got to our long-term room at about 4:30 am. We slept from perhaps 5:15 until 6 am, when they came in for the first check in. From that point on we were up, but had frequent visits from Doctors and nurses. Around 8 am they brought Reid into our room and gave him his first bath.  Then our parents arrived with Griffin so he could meet his brother.  It was the sweetest thing. I will never forget the smile on his face when he walked in, really quietly and shy. He had a big and happy smile on his face.  He walked over to his daddy and sat on his lap and just gazed at his brother. He loved looking at him and touching his face and hands. Throughout the day we had our parents and Amy, Andy, Graham, Rowan, and Greta visit. Kevin left for a couple of hours to take Griffin to his friend Coopers birthday party in the afternoon. The Manning’s brought us a lovely dinner from Northstar Cafe. Debbie came to visit. All of this to say that Kevin and I didn’t have any down time with one another to finalize our name choice! So, it wasn’t until about 10 pm or so that we decided on his name: Reid Christopher Armstrong! And his stats: born 5/20/17 at 1:51 am, 8 pounds 8 ounces, 20.25″.

We had other visitors on Sunday, including James, Laura, Audrey and Emmaline Kessler who came while Kevin was away taking Finn to his final Flag Football game of the season. I’m bummed that Kevin wasn’t there during their visit, as James prayed for Reid and our family. But I’m thankful that Kevin was able to spend that time with Griffin and that Griffin was able to go to his final game and receive his end of season trophy. He was really proud of it and brought it to the hospital to show me :).

 

 

April 19, 2015

DSC_0487This was the highlight of our week – picking up daddy so he could come home from the hospital! Kevin hadn’t been feeling well for about a couple of weeks, but in particular on Wednesday and when he woke up Thursday morning he decided to go to an Urgent Care. He was diagnosed with a sinus infection, picked up his prescription, and went on to work. By the early afternoon his face was reddening and swelling and he decided to go back to the doctor.  To summarize a long story he ended up at Riverside Methodist Hospital with sinusitis and cellulitis (a bacterial skin infection). His nose and cheeks were red and swollen and his sinuses were irritated. He received IV antibiotics and we figured he would just stay overnight on Thursday night, however, it ended up being a 3-night hospital stay.  Ugh! He ended up being treated with 4 different kinds of IV antibiotics over the 3 day period along with a topical antibiotic, nasal sprays and ointments. He was released Sunday late morning and will remain on antibiotics and nasal treatments for about 2 weeks. He’s pretty worn out but super happy to be home, and we are super happy he is back!

With the germ factor, and since I’m pregnant, Kevin didn’t want me going to the hospital and risk being exposed to all kinds of things there. Fortunately we were helped by many friends and family. Pat, Brett, and Christy visited Kevin on Thursday night after he arrived at Riverside. Grandma and Grandpa Armstrong stayed for a couple of nights and Finn loved playing with them and providing good entertainment. Thanks to Cam and Christie for watching Finn (or the house as it turns out Finn was in bed!) and taking a bag of things to Kevin at Riverside, and thanks to Jim, Chad, Deven, and James for visiting Kevin at the hospital and bringing him yummy food.  We’re thankful for all of our family and friends who checked in often and prayed for Kevin and our family during this whole thing. It was far more serious than we had anticipated and a much longer hospital stay than we had ever imagined.  Thank goodness for skype!

Finn sent daddy some flowers in a cool ceramic Jeep that will go in his room after the flowers are done blooming. DSC_0494 DSC_0492

And when we picked daddy up Finn gave him a goodie bag with the chocolate chip cookies and some Reese’s eggs 🙂 He was happy to help daddy eat one on our drive home. DSC_0488 DSC_0490

I’ve been working until about 11 pm most weeknights and working Saturdays so all the days kind of blend together. I was able to go meetup with Andy, the kids, and Mom and Dad for a pizza dinner on Friday night while they were in town helping the Bethune’s.  Finn got a good bear hug from Roro and Graham.

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On Friday night Finn and I made Kevin’s favorite, chocolate chip cookies, in anticipation of his coming home. Finn is such a great helper and loves to count while we measure and dump the ingredients. He also likes to turn on the mixer (he actually moves the piece that locks the mixer in place!). And of course his favorite part is cleaning the beater at the end! It’s been a good weekend though catching up around the house with laundry, cleaning, and grocery shopping. IMG_20150418_190815263_HDR IMG_20150418_193550925 IMG_20150418_193648207Sunday morning Finn woke up a hungry and happy boy. Here he was showing daddy, over skype, how much of his banana he had eaten. Along with two powdered dodo’s!IMG_20150419_075813858IMG_20150419_080924212

Finn had a fun week enjoying the warmer weather at the park, feeding the ducks, and painting some spring art!photophoto(1)photo(2)